WLTGWITU Chapter 20

After saying a few more words, he started complaining that I was late, and there was no one in the store to deliver goods in the morning. Okay, according to him, shouldn’t his kindness be exchanged for the help of this female Neighbor? Why is it my fault again? Sometimes I think I’m so ridiculous. Da Bao has to be called up to go to the toilet in the middle of the night every day, and Xiao Bao wakes up randomly N times in the second half of the night to eat milk. He has the ability to both make the horse run fast and not let the horse eat grass. Is this your mate selection criteria?!

The story with the female Neighbor is not over yet, because we have a cooperative agreement with the courier company, so the price is relatively low. He took the initiative to tell the nearby neighbors that our express delivery is cheap. This is understandable, and it is understandable to point out to people a way to save money, but what makes people incomprehensible is that he also has to help the neighbors send the packages to the cooperative courier point. Isn’t this a bit too much to help? Normally, you can borrow our name to send express delivery at our price, but it doesn’t mean that we have to deliver the packages, right? My Husband is now providing this kind of service and help to this female Neighbor. Now the female Neighbor is very used to sending the packages to our house. A “thank you” transfers all other things to us. For example, we only have a small package today, and the Neighbor sends a package that is 4 times heavier than ours. I have to help her weigh it, calculate the price, place the order, and then send it to the courier company. Am I allowed to be angry with him? Some people think I’m petty, and he even thinks so. But can a woman who has been hurt by cheating accept such a thing calmly? A man who has once been nailed to the pillar of shame, can’t you use your toes to think about whether doing this is reasonable? I don’t know if he is ignorant or has ulterior motives!

I thought life could return to the right track after going through hardships, why am I always entangled and never at peace, I am too sensitive, alas, the tears shed are not worth it, and I can’t control the gushing tears, teary-eyed, what a beautiful word, but after all, it is the blood flowing from the heart that is exchanged, where does the beauty come from… Others are crying for life and death, and I am crying for such trivial matter, is it worth it, is it ridiculous. Now only the child snuggling in my arms can give me some comfort!

Women, I advise you all to keep your eyes open when looking for a partner, otherwise countless sleepless nights will be the punishment for your blindness!

Am I overly sensitive or does he have a problem? I hope you can help me from the outside, I am really afraid that I will be confused as a bystander.

(The bits and pieces of last night, because of the APP problem, I only posted it now, and I am still angry in my heart…)

A male classmate posted a high-profile resignation in Moments a few days ago. It was probably 5 or 6 years ago, and it was known that he was the vice president of a branch of a commercial bank in a certain city. After five years, he should have moved up again. This year, when he moved, it was like this: first look at each other, if you like it, immediately decide, and then you can talk about it. If you can’t talk about it, then withdraw. Very few people like each other, talk first, and then decide. Like me, a 25-year-old young person, wouldn’t it be even more embarrassing if I broke off the engagement! After that, I didn’t want to go on blind dates in my hometown anymore!

What I think is okay about the other party is that I don’t dislike his appearance, I like the design profession, but there’s really nothing else…

I have been with my boyfriend for almost half a year, and the relationship has been very good, but recently we had a conflict because of buying a car.
You──me, big──small, more──less, up──down, left──right….
You are all born in ’96, renting a house together in Hangzhou. Because the commute is relatively long, Girlfriend’s family is considering buying a car for Girlfriend. His family said to buy a car worth 150,000 to 200,000, and the down payment would be about 100,000. His family is willing to pay 100,000 yuan as a down payment, and the loan needs to be repaid by the boyfriend. Buying a car is of course a good thing, but it is easy to buy a car and difficult to maintain it. Boyfriend’s salary is only 5,000, and he has to repay at least 2,000 car loans a month, plus postage, parking fees and maintenance fees. The remaining 2,000 has to pay 1,500 for rent, how can the remaining 500 be enough for food and commuting? (Our rent is 2,500 a month, I pay 1,000 and boyfriend pays 1,500). I suggest buying a cheap car as a means of transportation first, just buy a car with a down payment of less than 100,000 yuan, and wait until the car skills become better (Boyfriend has not touched a car since he got his driver’s license after college), and then change it when the income is more.

But he said that if he bought a 100,000 car, his family would only pay 50,000, no matter how much the car costs, it must be a loan. You said, “Why must you take out a loan? The economic pressure is already small, are you afraid that I will spend money indiscriminately, or are you afraid that you will spend my money?” He said, “You can’t completely rely on your family, or should we each pay half of the car loan? The car is bought for you to use together, your two salaries are definitely enough to support a car!” After you finished listening, you said, “Okay, you are willing to pay, but can you choose to buy a car for less than 100,000?” He said, “No, you like a more expensive one, cheap cars are useless.” You stopped talking after listening…

I just want to say, how much difference can there be between an expensive car and a cheap car, should I listen to my boyfriend’s opinion?

Girlfriend just graduated this year, he is four years older than you. You and him are elementary school sweethearts. You were in fourth grade and he was in first grade. You are a face-controller, he is indeed very handsome. You were attracted by his face when the club recruited new members. As an older senior, you were also a little girlish, and then you teased him in various ways, and then you were together. Although he is relatively old, he is still very mature and considerate. When you were sick and had to be hospitalized, he ran up and down in the hospital to take care of you alone, and he was very tolerant of your bad temper. Before you graduated, you stayed in that city, and you often came to him before work. Everyone thinks you are a good match. It wasn’t until he graduated that Girlfriend graduated and you rented a house together. You accompanied him to find a job. You have been dating for four years, and the relationship has been very bad. Now when you consider getting married, you find that you are not suitable for marriage, because of the differences in family conditions and the economic abilities brought about by age.

First of all, there is a gap in our family conditions: his family conditions are very average, his parents are doing small businesses in the countryside, and he has an older brother who is two years older than him (he is not even as old as me…). His brother just got engaged this year, and the family has spent a lot of savings because of the marriage. I am an only child, and my parents are retired cadres in a second-tier city.

The personal economic problems brought about by age: Girlfriend has just graduated with a salary of 6K, and your current salary is 11K+, in fact, in a few years, his salary will definitely increase, but it is currently not available, which is the hard difference brought about by age. Looking at the nine-square grid he posted in Moments, from the high-spiritedness of his youth to the now-fat and balding middle age, with 10 years of heartfelt feelings and general thanks and blessings. It has a bit of the taste of Lafite from 1982 paired with a three-ripe steak. A bunch of diving common bad friends popped up on the circle, a long string of messages, summarized into three meanings: blessings, admiration for courage, and come on.

I zoomed in on his nine-square grid. The hairline receding to the top of his head, his bloated figure, his round face, and the expression of his five senses were smiling, but they were filled with the past and reality that only middle-aged people can understand.

#There is also a Boyfriend who resigned from a state-owned enterprise.

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